Chapter 9 / 25, 4 min read
It's not a person that holds you, it's a feeling
Attachment isn't really to a person — it is to the feeling that wakes up inside you around that person.
You feel you are attached to a person. Their words, their habits, their presence.
But look closely. When that person is in front of you, something specific wakes up inside you — a restlessness, a pull, a sense that "something is about to happen." Is that feeling only about this person? Or has it happened before, somewhere else, with someone else?
Look carefully and you will often find the feeling is the same. People change — the feeling stays.
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